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演讲口才【80讲】第35讲 《如何练就自己的亲和力》卢敬天
作者：云南卡耐基演讲口才培训-卢敬天 如何练就自己的亲和力？亲和力在沟通过程当中非常重要，良好的亲和力可以让别人为你敞开心扉，因此自己的亲和力可以用以下几点来进行修炼：首先是习惯性用眼睛看着别人的面部，一定不要让眼睛晃去晃来的。其次是在交流过程当中，整个姿态语言是开放的，而不是封闭的。最后是每一次交谈完以后，都要告知对方，我们还有下一次的交流和沟通，让对方感觉到他受到尊敬。养成习惯以后你的亲和力就会得到很大的提升。 作业：回想一下生活当中谁是最有亲和力的，你为什么会这么认为，他有哪一些独特的特征？
演讲口才|高情商口才|人际沟通技巧【合集80讲】33/78
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