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【演讲口才技巧】37讲：《沟通中如何有理有据的怼别人？》卢敬天
作者：云南卡耐基-卢敬天 沟通中如何有理有据的怼别人？生活中避免不了，有时候心里不舒服，要和别人进行一些争辩，有理有据的怼回去。那如何做到相对比较艺术呢？首先肯定要学会以其人之道还其人之身，就是把别人没有换位思考，难以接受的反过来和对方讨论一下。其次是说话一定要有理有据，而不是凭空捏造，即使是反驳，也让对方心悦诚服。最后是一定要清楚的知道自己的语言讲出来的目的是什么，想达到什么样的效果。
演讲口才|高情商口才|人际沟通技巧【合集80讲】35/78
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